If you and your partner are considering becoming swingers, it is very important to first address the issue of jealously. Jealously is a common problem that affect many relationships and if it is not dealt with correctly, it can lead to more trouble. Being a swinger is all about being free with your sexuality and sharing sexual experiences with more than one partner. That is why, it is important to address the issues of jealously so everyone is on the same page.
If you are a jealous person or if you are the type who is sensitive when it comes to matters concerning sexuality, then swinging can easily ruin your relationship. The truth is that, the swinging lifestyle is not for everyone. Almost every person who is swinger and in a relationship feel jealous at some point. Sometimes it stems from one’s own insecurities, so discuss these with your partners so you are not placed in a swinging situation where your jealous streak will shine.
You may think that you have risen above jealously, but in reality you haven’t. You may not feel jealous when you first start until you actually witness the actual act happening, your spouse having sex with another person, the feeling might be different. This is true especially if you are still in early stages of swinging. You are therefore advised to take things slowly, especially if you are still in early stages to avoid the feel of jealousy from catching up with you.
The best way to deal with jealousy is by sitting down with your spouse and setting rules that should not be broken. For instance, if you and your partner really want to explore on sex but you are afraid that you may be jealous at some point, you can agree with your partner that you will begin with soft swinging, where intercourse will strictly be between you and your spouse while other action can happen with others. As you progress you can upgrade to fully open swinging but you can still stick to soft swing if either of you are not comfortable or feel extremely jealous to upgrade to open swing.
Another key element of dealing with jealously is to talk about it. During early stages of swinging, you may not be jealous but as you progress, you may start being jealous when you see your spouse engaging in sexual act with other partners. Don’t hold it back, talk about it. You can only be success in swinging if you build trust and confidence in your relationship. Communication and honesty is very important when you are in swinging.
4 WAYS MONOGAMOUS COUPLES DISCREDIT SWINGERS
There are numerous false assumptions that surround swinging a private lifestyle that leans towards not following the standard or “accepted” rules of marriage and monogamy. If you would like to be enlightened about the lifestyle or perhaps want to join the bandwagon, you should start by getting to know what swinging is not. Mainstream society usually frowns upon swinging, and, as a result, there are multiple misconceptions that very many people accept as true. Most of these paint an awful picture of what swinging is all about and they can
HOTWIFING ISSUES: DO MEN LOVE THEIR WIVES?
Do you believe that men can still love their wives even though they are involved in Hotwifing? Most women wonder if their men are really into them, reason being that their soul mate advises them to be intimately involved with other men. Some of these women may wonder if what they are being required to do is really possible. It is easy to come into terms with what these women are thinking of the Hotwifing issue, this is because these women have some outlook on how relationship should be and what
JOINING A SWINGER GROUP
Looking for a swinger group? Apart from swing clubs, it is common knowledge that many couples also attend parties organized by lifestyle groups. Swingers who have never been to such group parties may think that they are a low-budget swing clubs held in one’s apartment. However, the truth is that these groups are usually not smaller version of swing clubs but rather more personalized societies of the entire community of swingers. And with different types of swingers also mean that swingers group are many with each catering to a particular
A Glasgow adult nightclub has vowed to continue its sex parties despite fears of the coronavirus.
CJ’s in Glasgow has limited its capacity to less than 100 revellers
each night in an effort to combat the spread of the virus, which has so
far infected 31 people in Glasgow.
The club promises ‘a fun enjoyable night out in safe and comfortable surroundings with a relaxed atmosphere’.
They say events scheduled this weekend and throughout next week will go ahead.
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And bosses have reassured regulars that measures have been put in
place to reduce any potential risks, including placing hand sanitizer
dispensers at different locations within the venue.
A statement on a sex site from the club’s owners reads: “CJs parties
will still be going ahead and extra measures have been put in place to
reduce any risks.
“Hand sanitiser dispensers have been placed on the wall at the
entrance outside the cloakroom, at the top of the stairs before you
enter playrooms and in the kitchen area.
“We are asking guests to please make use of these along with washing your hands before and after play.
“We will be restricting parties to less than 100 guests until further notice. Swing safe as always.”
My husband and I used to play a game of naming movie stars we would like to sleep with. Eventually, that game transformed to discussing people we know who we’d like to sleep with. Although we didn’t start giving each other permission to actually have sex with these people, the idea was planted.
I didn’t start my marriage as a swinger. I was married for more than a decade before we first couple swapped.
The next couple of years were spent with things I’d call testers. At parties we played the game, “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours.” From there we started experiencing sex with someone watching. All these things may seem tame to most, but to us it was the beginning of a lifestyle we didn’t know we wanted.
We became members of a webcam site called anywebcam. The site allowed us to be voyeurs, which in turn led to us having sex on the webcam. We spent time chatting with other couples and eventually decided to meet a group of people from the website. We took a trip to Tennessee to attend a party with this group, who were friends that regularly got together and played.
For this group, playtime consisted of girl-on-girl while the men watched. One couple secretly told us they were a full swap couple, but that type of play didn’t normally occur with this group.
Enter Soccer Mom; blonde, skinny, and tan; arriving with no preconceived notions. I seemed to transform the group, at least for one evening.
The parties theme was toga. So while my husband was off with a few of the boys buying more alcohol, I was standing in a thong having people dress me in a toga. This was the beginning of loosening up the rules for everyone. The evening moved along with some kissing and a little touching. Before I knew it I was getting quite a bit of attention. Picture this: me on the couch with a man kissing my lips, kissing each of my breasts, and a female between my legs. Each would alternate positions. The guys and girls would gesture for an ok from my husband before they joined the fun. A female saw that my husband was standing alone so she offered to take care of him.
Later that night we experienced our first swap with another couple. We went back to our hotel room with the other couple. Each of us started having sex with our own spouses. Not long after the guys looked at each other for a permissive nod, then we traded. This was a thrilling experience for both of us. From that night on we knew this was something we wanted to experience again and again.
The Church has always been willing to swap off treasures in heaven. On this life we just want to swap our partners to enjoy the few time we have to deserve happiness. (SwingersTaboo)
Me and Marc have been into swap for a long time now but we only had FFM 3somes. For some reason, he is scared of inviting another man to fuck me. I have always been patient but lately I wanted more and more to experience a MMF threesome. I know he would be jealous if it was a friend or anyone we know, so I offered him something else (which is also a fantasy of mine): we would go to a swingers club, we’d find Mr Nobody, and him and Marc will split-roast me all night long. A win-win for everyone ?
One weekend, we did that, went to a club where no one knew us, and
spent all night meeting people and trying to find a bull suitable for
the job. But whenever I liked someone, I could feel Marc pulling back
and not getting excited even for a second. So, I thought I’m pushing him
too fast and offered to go back to the hotel room.
a naked lingerie girl chatting on swingerstaboo
When we got there, I went on the balcony for a cigarette and he said
he’d go out for a bit because he wanted to get some ice. It took him a
while but I guess I never noticed. I was in bed reading when he came
back. He was holding a blindfold in his hand, put it on me without
saying a word and then told me to strip naked and to remain in bed.
That’s when I heard the door open again and someone else came into the
room!
Marc made me suck his cock while the other person spread my legs and started licking my ass and pussy. It was a great feeling to feel his penis deep in my mouth while the other person was eating me out. I was getting more and more wet and horny but a thought was still lurking in the back of my head – is this a man or a woman? Will hubby finally make my dream come true?
A few minutes later, Marc reached over my back and spread my legs
even further apart. A second later I felt a big, fat cock slide inside
my wet pussy! Holy shit, I was finally in a MMF threesome!!!
So, here I am, getting tag-teamed by my lovely husband and the
mysterious stranger. I’m still wearing the blindfold and I can’t even
see him. But I don’t care. Marc is busy fucking my mouth and nearly
suffocates me while the other guy is methodically ramming his cock deep
inside my pussy. I cum once and squirt a little but he doesn’t stop.
After a while, I cum again and start feeling a bit sore – so I need a
rest. Then I feel Marc’s load shooting out of his cock and right down my
throat but still nothing from the other lover.
They let me rest for a bit while both lick me and touch me and make
me even hornier. Then, Marc makes me get on all fours and starts fucking
me from behind while it’s Mr Stranger’s turn to get a blowjob.
Soon, I cum again (for the third time!!) and feel hubby’s cock start
throbbing deep inside me – he orgasms again. I want to tell the other
man that I’m very tired but before that he flips me on my back, opens my
legs, and starts fucking my pussy harder than ever. Soon, he pulls out
and I feel the biggest load I ever experienced all over my body. It even
hits my face!!
Then, Marc removed my blindfold and when I looked around, I almost
jumped out of bed because besides Mr Stranger, I saw a woman sitting in a
chair in the corner and holding a camera! Then I recognize them – they
are a couple from the club we went to!
My husband planned it all out – he spoke to them about my fantasy
while I was in the bathroom, then pretended to me that he’s backing
down, and then met them in the hotel lobby (when he “went for ice”).
I can never thank this woman enough – she shared her husband with me
and made a dream of mine come true. We never got their names and they
didn’t know ours. We will probably never meet them again. But I’ll
remember this night for the rest of my life!
