Angela and Bradford  couple explains why “Monogamy didn’t work for us…”.

Angela and Bradford couple explains why “Monogamy didn’t work for us…”.

Mr and Mrs Atom, from Raleigh in North Carolina, are both bisexual and have been married for three and a half years, moved to Australia after Bradford received a job opportunity too good to pass up.

“Nether of us would ever go back to it.

“We were both married before meeting one another, which weren’t open relationships,” Angela, 38, added.

“When we started dating, we were hooking up and it wasn’t serious. But when we wanted it to be more serious, we made it known to each other that we wanted to see other people.

“This quickly turned in to seeing couples together … we call it friends with benefits.”

Both working in the science field, the international move allowed the pair to have a clean slate and be completely open about their relationship from the get go.

“We are very lucky,” Mr Atom said.

“When we moved, we got a free pass to restart everything. When we arrived, we made it a point to be open and honest with everyone about our relationship. Both our families know, we have friends at work who know about us, and in the real world we are just open and honest.

“If you hide, that’s a real problem and simply shows guilt, but this is the way a normal relationship can look.”

The pair, who now live in Sydney and run adult sexual education classes in addition to their full time jobs, said every open relationship was different – but they tend to see other couples together.

“It’s a fun experience, but the key to any successful open relationship is a strong basis of communication and trust,” Mr Atom said.

“There are times when we see people separately, which we talk about in depth. This is much more than just sex.

“We consider ourselves ‘socio-sexuals’, meaning we like to have a deeper relationship with people and not just sex.

“Sometimes we have sex sometimes we don’t,” Mrs Atom added.

“Sometimes we might just have a drink with someone, or go to dinner. It’s not just a wham bam thank you ma’am.”

While Mr and Mrs Atom would never go back to a monogamous relationship, they do acknowledge jealousy can come in to play from time to time.

“We are each others home base, so no matter what happens or who we see, we will always come home to each other,” Mr Atom said.

“There is no one that will interrupt us, but jealousy can come in to play.”

“But there’s two sides to the coin with jealousy. Compersion on one side, which means you’re happy if your partner is happy, and on the other side is jealousy.

“For us, it’s about getting in check and in balance.

“We understand this is fringe,” Mrs Atom added.

“We are not the cookie cutter mould of normal. But everybody is very supportive of us.”

While it’s virtually impossible to know how many Australians are living polyamorous [open relationship] lifestyles, a US academic study indicates that about five per cent, or, 1.2 million Aussies are foregoing monogamy for non-traditional partnerships.

Mr and Mrs Atom saw a gap in adult sexual education market, and made the decision 18 months ago to launch By the Bi – which teaches couples and singles everything they’ve wanted to know about sex, but haven’t felt confident or comfortable enough to ask.

“A lot of people in the 25 to 50 year old age group get their sexual education from porn,” Mr Atom said.

“That’s like getting life information from an Avengers movie. So we wanted to educate adults to have a better relationship with their partner.”

The classes, which run once a month from a club in Sydney called The Secret Spot, starts off with a presentation before concluding with a live demonstration.

“This is so people can see and understand what has been spoken about at the start of the class,” Mrs Atom said. Then participants in the class can go home and try it for themselves.

“So if it’s a flirting class, we will demonstrate both good and bad techniques. If we do a massage class, we will demonstrate different hand job techniques,” she said.

“Our most popular classes is the blow job demonstration and the clitoris massage, but

we’ve never demonstrated sex. We try to be informative without being crass.”

Do you have what it take to satisfy a hotwife?

Do you have what it take to satisfy a hotwife?

What a hotwife is looking for in a bull?

Having met a relatively wide range of hotwives I can pretty much say there are common carectheristic among successful bulls. 

Here is my top x list of must have to ensure you will be successful in meeting but mostly satisfy a hotwife

  • Be confident and energetic – Confidence ia really important not only when it comes to sex. Most hotwives embark this journey because their husbands are not able to make them feel desired and deliver when it comes to satisfy their sexual needs. This often leads beautiful women to lose confidence (link to confident wife) themselves despite how attractive they are or in oder circumstances simply need a confident man that can take them how they have never been before. Showing confidence and making them feel comfortable is extremely important at every stage of the relationship. Confidence is not something everyone has to begin with, I was personally very shy but I did manage to develop it by practicing throughout my meets. Check out my guide on how to become more confident when dating an older woman. 
  • Deliver when it comes to sex – it’s very simple, you need to be able to fuck hard and have plenty stamina. There is no if, here. You role as a bull is primarily based on your ability to pound a hotwife like her husband will never be able to. Doesn’t mean all women are after rough sex (link to guides on hard sex) but still I very much doubt you will ever meet a hotwife who is happy to be fucked 5-10 minutes. Most hotwives are over 30-35 and majority of my dates have been over 40. As I have explained in my post on sex with older women (link) the expectations are higher and your ability to deliver will pretty much determine your success in having regular demand. Just to be extra clear, less than 1 hour without coming and ability to pound heavy are essential. Similar to confidence this is something you can also train with time, I advise you read my post on how to last longer and learn how to fuck hard (link)
  • Size matters, be at least over 6.5-7 inches. Ideally 7.5-8.5″. In many years of experience I yet have to find a hotwife who doesn’t care about size. Some are really obsessed (usually describe themselves as size queens) while some are relatively less strict yet a common fantasy of any hotwife/cuck couple is to go bigger. It’s a great turn on for the husband to see the wife with a bigger guy but also a necessity on her side. The core about hotwife sex is about her getting fucked better by a bigger cock. If you smaller than 6.5″ inches your chances to impress are close to 0 unless you are extremely thick. Yet most wives so far have confirmed 7-7.5″ to be the starting size while over time they are naturally attractes to 8+ inches cocks. I have written a more in-depth post on cock size and why I think it matters, I am not extra large myself and rarely had NOs being 7+” but in case you are very small I doubt this is for you. Differently from most other requirements this can’t be trained, you can only blame mother nature and acknowledge you might become a cuckold husband if you happen to marry a very hot wife. 
  • Understand your role as a bull – this is really important if you want to establish successful long term relationships rather than on off meets. I have written a guide on the difference between the two and my advice to best deal in both situations yet is always essential to understand your role. Couples and hotwives really appreciate if you show respect for both and particularly husbands will be more likely to trust you with their other half if you show respect, good manners and appreciation for the privilege you been give. Check out my guide on managing a long term relationship with a cuckold couple (link).
  • Don’t treat a hotwife as a number, pay attention to every single detail, listen and be prepared to give her all the attentions she needs. Many bulls (myself included) are not exclusive to a single couple, that said I strongly advise to go for quantity rather than quality. I fully appreciate you can be horny and can’t sync with your existing contacts but meeting new people is not always as efficient or rewarding as developing longer relationships. There have been periods where I could not make it work with any regular hotwife while other times and currently enjoy regular meets with 3 wives on top of one off encounters. Important is to make sure you not being too superficial and just treat every single hotwife and couple with great dedication. If you only think this is just about a 2 hours hard fuck you getting it wrong. Into each meet there is usually more preparation than action. So do regular relationships where you have to be prepared to invest time. I am a very busy professional myself, check out my blogpost on how to sync business with pleasure for tips on how balance and get the best out the time you have available. Easy sex can look appealing and personally I could have ton of it these days thanks to recommendations and many messages I received but over time I decided quality is the way to go. Best hotwives deserve best attentions, don’t confuse this for easy sex.
Couples Dating For Sexual Relationships

Couples Dating For Sexual Relationships

There is no better way of putting the spice back into your relationship than to experiment with couples dating otherwise known as the swinging lifestyle. It’s something that more and more people are looking into and it’s a great way to meet new people and strengthen a relationship while fulfilling sexual desires. Being able to act out naughty fantasies means that couple are less likely to “cheat” on one another because they are given permission to engage in the activity.

To avoid any jealousy from taking over, some couples set boundaries. The boundaries are there to keep their emotional bond between them in place. For example, some couples has a “no kissing on the lips” rule that is adhere to by both partners. Some might think that “sharing” their partner with somebody else would have detrimental effects, but many couples find it actually makes them more open with each another.

If you are a couple and interested in dating other couples visit SwingersTaboo.com, the swingers dating site to connect with other like-minded people like you. You can sign up for FREE as a couple. Joining a couples dating website allows you to connect with others, set a date for a casual encounter and get the opportunity to search for people who live near you. You also have the chance to browse through members pictures which is a great way to really see who catches your eye.

Sex is erotic, pleasurable and keeps us feeling happy – this is what swinging can offer. We weren’t made to have sex with one person for the rest of our lives and we shouldn’t feel that restraint. You can be in love with one person but have sex with many. Exploring your sexual side with both men and women will make you feel alive and much more together in everyday life.

If you want to be a third in somebody else’s relationship, then sign up for Swingers Dating now and have a browse. What are you waiting for? Life is about doing things that you’re scared to day, to do things that both scare and excite you. Swinging can open a whole new world and make your sex life flourish.

Experience shared. Our first Orgy

Experience shared. Our first Orgy

Last night we finally had our first orgy! It was unplanned but not unwanted because we have always wanted to try this! Me and hubby were invited to a private party – we only knew the hosts and they are actively looking for couples to take part in their weekly orgies.

It was a bit weird at first but luckily we saw another couple we have swapped with before – so, it wasn’t that socially awkward. You always feel pressure at such events to find someone to play with and not just keep to yourself – I mean, it’s not mandatory but if you only watch, you won’t be invited again.

After a while, a couple decided to go in one of the bedrooms with our friends and start the fun with some wife swap. Me and hubby went there too and just watched in the beginning but soon they invites us in and we didn’t hesitate for a second ?

We do have some experience in group play but it was mostly with another couple and nothing more than a foursome. So, we were just a bit nervous because we finally were at a real full-blown orgy! I think there were at least 20 men and women that night in the house.

Last night we finally had our first orgy! It was unplanned but not unwanted because we have always wanted to try this! Me and hubby were invited to a private party – we only knew the hosts and they are actively looking for couples to take part in their weekly orgies.

It was a bit weird at first but luckily we saw another couple we have swapped with before – so, it wasn’t that socially awkward. You always feel pressure at such events to find someone to play with and not just keep to yourself – I mean, it’s not mandatory but if you only watch, you won’t be invited again.

After a while, a couple decided to go in one of the bedrooms with our friends and start the fun with some wife swap. Me and hubby went there too and just watched in the beginning but soon they invites us in and we didn’t hesitate for a second ?

We do have some experience in group play but it was mostly with another couple and nothing more than a foursome. So, we were just a bit nervous because we finally were at a real full-blown orgy! I think there were at least 20 men and women that night in the house.

But watching all of these sexy bodies fucking in bed and moaning with pleasure and enjoying themselves made us really horny. I can’t always cum because I get tired or am too anxious but this time everything made me feel relaxed. And also wanted. Every man there wanted some time with me and this made me feel so pretty ?

I can’t describe it all but you can imagine ? There was lots of fucking, threesomes, even a short gangbang for one lucky lady (I didn’t dare this time). When we left, I was feeling so light and happy that I could go on and on and on!

Last night we finally had our first orgy! It was unplanned but not unwanted because we have always wanted to try this! Me and hubby were invited to a private party – we only knew the hosts and they are actively looking for couples to take part in their weekly orgies.

It was a bit weird at first but luckily we saw another couple we have swapped with before – so, it wasn’t that socially awkward. You always feel pressure at such events to find someone to play with and not just keep to yourself – I mean, it’s not mandatory but if you only watch, you won’t be invited again.

After a while, a couple decided to go in one of the bedrooms with our friends and start the fun with some wife swap. Me and hubby went there too and just watched in the beginning but soon they invites us in and we didn’t hesitate for a second ?

We do have some experience in group play but it was mostly with another couple and nothing more than a foursome. So, we were just a bit nervous because we finally were at a real full-blown orgy! I think there were at least 20 men and women that night in the house.

But watching all of these sexy bodies fucking in bed and moaning with pleasure and enjoying themselves made us really horny. I can’t always cum because I get tired or am too anxious but this time everything made me feel relaxed. And also wanted. Every man there wanted some time with me and this made me feel so pretty ?

I can’t describe it all but you can imagine ? There was lots of fucking, threesomes, even a short gangbang for one lucky lady (I didn’t dare this time). When we left, I was feeling so light and happy that I could go on and on and on!

But watching all of these sexy bodies fucking in bed and moaning with pleasure and enjoying themselves made us really horny. I can’t always cum because I get tired or am too anxious but this time everything made me feel relaxed. And also wanted. Every man there wanted some time with me and this made me feel so pretty ?

I can’t describe it all but you can imagine ? There was lots of fucking, threesomes, even a short gangbang for one lucky lady (I didn’t dare this time). When we left, I was feeling so light and happy that I could go on and on and on!

What You Need To Know About a Cuckold Relationship

What You Need To Know About a Cuckold Relationship

Learn what you need to know about a cuckold relationship to make it work! This short article gathers all that you have to know while cuckolding your better half. What is a cuckold? By and large use, and the utilization we will utilize in this article, a cuckold alludes to a wedded man whose spouse takes part in sexual issues with other men. The rest of this article will let you know, the lady, how to change the progression of your traditional relationship to make an active “cuckolding relationship”: a relationship in which you have illicit relationships with other men and both yourself and your better half are content with the game plan.

Does He Want To Be Cuckolded?

A few men fantasize about this sort of relationship. In any case, if your better half is NOT one of these men, you have no expectation at all of altering his opinion. While not an abnormal dream, it is not for everybody. What’s more, most men would be stunned at their spouses having illegal sexual illicit relationships. So we will continue as though your significant other DOES need to be a cuckold.

New Relationship Rules

Your significant other will want to submit himself to you. You are currently his “predominant.” He will take after your tenets and appreciate doing as such. What you have to do is give him another arrangement of life-affirming principles. These new guidelines depend totally on YOU. The guidelines, be that as it may, ought to be improved to make your life. If you detest cleaning, have your significant other do it. Possibly doing the pressing is your concept of a bad dream. Begin with a couple of controls then continuously expand on them. The one decides that is basic in ALL types of cuckoldry is keeping the spouse from sexual discharge.

Disciplines And Rewards

While cuckolding your better half, it is basic that you utilize an arrangement of disciplines and rewards. This is much similar to you would utilize when preparing a pooch. Prizes ought to be given for good conduct and as a rule, have a sexual component. It is imperative to recognize what sexually stirs your better half. Does he like feet, for example? As a reward, let him adore your feet. It will feel odd rebuffing your better half, yet it is gigantically critical. You should tell him that you are currently the manager.

Sweethearts: The Final Step To Cuckolding Your Husband

Obviously, by definition, to make your significant other a cuckold you need a sexual relationship with another man (or men). These are ordinarily alluded to as “bulls.” This will be the last stride. If you and your better half are as yet glad in your new relationship, then you have effectively cuckolded your life partner.

If you always asked… How we became Swingers

If you always asked… How we became Swingers

Let me first start off by describing my hot sexy wife for you.

She’s 38 years old with a 5’8″ curvy build (not fat just curvy). She has blonde hair but her natural color is brunette. She has big beautiful breasts, size 36 D, and they are implants but they feel and look like the real thing. She has beautiful brown eyes and a smile that’ll melt your heart, and she has just the right size ass, not too big and not too small. In her spare time she does pin-up modeling for a magazine called Delicious Dolls. She’s just beautiful, sexy and smart.

The total package.

It all started one even when we were having a Halloween party at the house. She was dressed like a sexy Olive Oyl and I was dressed as Popeye. She wore a skintight red sweater that showed off her curves and beautiful large breasts and a hiked up black skirt with sexy leggings and high heels.

We invited five couples to the party; some were her friends and some were mine. Now you have to know that we never discussed swapping, sharing or threesomes before so this night wasn’t planned for anything like that.

My wife was the perfect hostess, making sure everyone had food and liquor and chatting with the guests. She doesn’t usually drink very often but this night she was having fun and getting drunk. As the night wore on couples started saying their goodbyes and left. Only one other remained, they were her friends. She worked with the husband of this couple.

He was tall, young, well built and handsome. His wife didn’t hold a candle next to my wife. She was kind of homely looking or maybe it was because she was dressed as a nun. Either way I was attracted to her but I could tell my wife was attracted to him just by the way she was flirting with him.

We stayed up pretty late drinking, laughing, and talking. I ended up bringing some playing cards out and asked Bob if he played poker. He said yes but usually it’s for money and asked me what the stakes are. I told him no money just for fun and he replied that we should bet something. So I jokingly said let’s bet our wives clothing and he laughed and said “deal!”

The wives weren’t too happy about this and honestly neither was I. So we played a few hands and it got boring quickly, even the wives were getting bored. So Bob mentioned the only way to get this party going was to bet clothing, everyone’s clothes this time not just the girls. The wives got together and said they’ll do it but only down to their underwear. I agreed with the girls. So we started playing all four of us.

A few hands into the game Bob’s wife was down to her bra and long skirt, and my wife had her shirt on but her skirt was off so were her high heels and leggings. So pretty much, my wife was sitting there in her panties. I told her if she loses one more hand the game is over because she’ll be in her underwear then. She replied she’s in it to win it and she won’t stop with the bra and panties. Bob’s face lit up and he said that a girl have fun. Bob’s wife was getting tired and losing interest.

She eventually quit the game and sat on the couch and watched tv until she feel asleep. But before she did that we played a couple more hands and Bob lost both hands so he took off his shoes and shirt. He was pretty muscular and tan and my wife noticed that. After that is when Bob’s wife went to watch TV.

The very next hand my wife lost so off came the shirt, exposing her tits in her bra. So you gotta imagine my wife being a model, you know she’s not wearing no Wal-mart boring bra. She’s wearing a nice sexy one that you can just make out the nipples thru it. I looked at Bob and he was just staring at her tits and said “wow I always wonder what they looked like under your work shirt.” She laughed and said “if I lose another hand you’ll get to see them without the bra on!” because her panties would be the last to go.

A few more hands went by, and by this time Bob’s wife is sawing logs on the couch. I’m sitting there in my pants and no shoes or shirt. Bob is sitting there with just his underwear on by now. The very next hand Bob lost again and stood up pulled down his underwear and exposed a large thick dick. I looked at my wife and she was shy to look at first but once she did, she couldn’t take her eyes off of it. He sat back down and said game is over, he lost, he’s naked.

My wife told him to deal again and she’ll figure out what he can bet now that he’s naked. So Bob dealt the cards, my wife made a comment that she always wondered what he was packing under his work pants. He laughed and said “well now you know”.

The next hand my wife lost and off came her bra. She looked at Bob and said “are you ready for this” and took it off exposing her ample breasts. She grabbed them and squeezed them and then she said “deal the cards” so he dealt again. By this time I’m feeling like a third wheel because they just keep talking to each other. I lose the next hand so I end up in my boxers and my wife tells me I’m going to get your dick out too. I laughed and said “we will see”.

Next hand my wife lost, she stood up and did a sexy dance while taking off her panties exposing her shaved pussy. Bob was just smiling and shaking his head in disbelief that he finally gets to see my wife naked. The next hand I lost so I end up naked. So now we’re all naked and I mentioned what do we do now? My wife said there is still more to bet. I said like what? She said you’ll see and told Bob to deal.

That hand my wife lost and I won and Bob had the next best hand so my wife told me since I won I get to make up a bet for her. I told her ok let me think. I didn’t want to be too vulgar so I told her that she has to make her tits bounce. She did it and said that was too easy and that we need to be more creative. We agreed to that and Bob dealt the cards.

My wife won that one and I lost. She told me to suck on one of her nipples. She stood up and almost fell over because she was so drunk by this point. I stood up and started sucking on her nipple. She reached down and started stroking my dick. I got embarrassed so I backed off. I didn’t want to get hard in front of another man.

By the time we sat back down Bob had the cards dealt already and that hand I lost again and the wife was the winner again. She said “since basically both guys lost I get to make a bet with both of you”. She told us we both have to suck on her tits now. She stood up again and Bob jumped up and started sucking on one, but I was kind of hesitant not knowing what to think about this. She reached down and started stroking his big dick as he kept sucking on her tit. I was starting to get aroused with what I was seeing.

It surprised me because I thought I would be mad if I ever saw my wife do something like that. So I stood up and started kissing her other breast and she started to jerk me off too. We did this for only a couple minutes and then my wife said let’s play because she had a better idea for the next bet.

So we played and Bob won this time I lost. So we were kind of stuck because there ain’t no way I’m touching his dick or anything like that. So Bob made a bet that I tell my wife to finger herself for one minute. So I told her “you heard the man, do it.” She said she liked where this was going and leaned back and started playing with herself. She was staring at Bob the whole time she did it.

Bob said ok times up and my wife gathered herself back up and was ready to play again. She mentioned she was so wet right now and she wants to do that again.

Next hand Bob won again and my wife lost this time. So Bob told her to play with herself for five minutes this time. So she happily obliged and started fingering herself again. Five minutes went by and time was up once again. By this time I could tell my wife was pretty horny and all worked up. She won the next hand and Bob lost. She told Bob to come sit by her so he did. She started jerking him off and she told him to finger her. As I’m sitting there watching them, I’m getting the biggest and hardest erection ever.

Watching his fingers slide in and out if my wife’s pussy and playing with the clit also. She’s moaning, he’s moaning, and they are staring into each others eyes. She started to stand up and told Bob there’s a second part to the bet and for him to follow her and that I can come too.

So we followed her into the other living room and she told me to sit down and watch and that I can’t join in because I wasn’t the loser. She dropped to her knees and started to suck his huge duck. I started playing with myself at this point watching her go to town on his dick. She was playing with his balls and everything. She looked at me and said I’m going to fuck him and I can stay if I want or leave, the choice was mine.

So I stayed.

She made him sit on the couch and she climbed on top and started riding his dick. At first penetration my wife moaned loud because of his huge dick. Started riding it slow at first and then faster and faster. They both came at the same time loudly too. I thought Bob’s wife was going to wake up with how loud they were. He came inside her because she told him to and then collapsed on top of him.

The next day the wife told me she was sorry that happened, she was drunk and got horny. I told her it was ok and that I hope it happens again. She was surprised by my reaction and said “really?” I told her hell yeah I can’t wait and that was the beginning of our swinger lifestyle.