Too much wine
Drinking too much at #christmas . Listening a “what we have for dessert” and…. do you think this could be the perfect answer?
Experiences shared by Marc & Shelley
Me and Marc have been into swap for a long time now but we only had FFM 3somes. For some reason, he is scared of inviting another man to fuck me. I have always been patient but lately I wanted more and more to experience a MMF threesome. I know he would be jealous if it was a friend or anyone we know, so I offered him something else (which is also a fantasy of mine): we would go to a swingers club, we’d find Mr Nobody, and him and Marc will split-roast me all night long. A win-win for everyone ?
One weekend, we did that, went to a club where no one knew us, and spent all night meeting people and trying to find a bull suitable for the job. But whenever I liked someone, I could feel Marc pulling back and not getting excited even for a second. So, I thought I’m pushing him too fast and offered to go back to the hotel room.
When we got there, I went on the balcony for a cigarette and he said he’d go out for a bit because he wanted to get some ice. It took him a while but I guess I never noticed. I was in bed reading when he came back. He was holding a blindfold in his hand, put it on me without saying a word and then told me to strip naked and to remain in bed. That’s when I heard the door open again and someone else came into the room!
Marc made me suck his cock while the other person spread my legs and started licking my ass and pussy. It was a great feeling to feel his penis deep in my mouth while the other person was eating me out. I was getting more and more wet and horny but a thought was still lurking in the back of my head – is this a man or a woman? Will hubby finally make my dream come true?
A few minutes later, Marc reached over my back and spread my legs even further apart. A second later I felt a big, fat cock slide inside my wet pussy! Holy shit, I was finally in a MMF threesome!!!
So, here I am, getting tag-teamed by my lovely husband and the mysterious stranger. I’m still wearing the blindfold and I can’t even see him. But I don’t care. Marc is busy fucking my mouth and nearly suffocates me while the other guy is methodically ramming his cock deep inside my pussy. I cum once and squirt a little but he doesn’t stop. After a while, I cum again and start feeling a bit sore – so I need a rest. Then I feel Marc’s load shooting out of his cock and right down my throat but still nothing from the other lover.
They let me rest for a bit while both lick me and touch me and make me even hornier. Then, Marc makes me get on all fours and starts fucking me from behind while it’s Mr Stranger’s turn to get a blowjob.
Soon, I cum again (for the third time!!) and feel hubby’s cock start throbbing deep inside me – he orgasms again. I want to tell the other man that I’m very tired but before that he flips me on my back, opens my legs, and starts fucking my pussy harder than ever. Soon, he pulls out and I feel the biggest load I ever experienced all over my body. It even hits my face!!
Then, Marc removed my blindfold and when I looked around, I almost jumped out of bed because besides Mr Stranger, I saw a woman sitting in a chair in the corner and holding a camera! Then I recognize them – they are a couple from the club we went to!
My husband planned it all out – he spoke to them about my fantasy while I was in the bathroom, then pretended to me that he’s backing down, and then met them in the hotel lobby (when he “went for ice”).
I can never thank this woman enough – she shared her husband with me and made a dream of mine come true. We never got their names and they didn’t know ours. We will probably never meet them again. But I’ll remember this night for the rest of my life!
How to approach a Swinger Couple. 5 Steps and rules
Doyou want to give swinging a try? you have talked to your partner and both are interested? Have you read our guide about “How to become a swinger couple” ? Very good. It’s time to make a furher step
How to approach a Swinger Couple
So you and your partner have decided you want to give swinging a try? You’ve had the conversation and read some articles, and you are now ready to move to the next phase: finding a couple to “swing” with.
Should be easy enough, but what exactly is the best way to approach another like-minded couple?
Well, John and I are swingers,ans we have compiled a top five list of important tips and strategies to help those new (and seasoned) to the lifestyle.
1. Just introduce yourselves
Seems simple enough.
You and your partner have decided to visit a local swingers club. You see another couple who seems interesting and who you both find appealing. Take the initiative and go introduce yourselves to them.
Remember this is no different from any other introduction. “Hi, how are you? I’m John, and this is my wife Jackie.”
2. Strike up a conversation
This will be the natural progression following an introduction. “So is this your first visit to the club? Do you live in the area?” Again, the conversation can begin just like any other first meeting conversation.
This is that all important opportunity to see how the four of you mesh. Is the conversation flowing? Does everyone seem to be enjoying each other?
TIP: Don’t start off by talking about sex.
3. Bringing up the lifestyle
This may sound silly, especially since you are already in an environment where like-minded couples gather, but it is still an important topic to touch on.
“So how long have you been in the lifestyle? Is this your first visit to a swingers club?” Not everyone visiting a club will be a veteran swinger. You may have approached another couple new to the lifestyle (known as a “newbie”).
Talking about the lifestyle can and does create another level of interesting conversation. “Oh my gosh, we’re new also. I was so nervous about visiting!” Or “We are lifetime members of this club and have been in the lifestyle for years.”
4. Take it to the dance floor
What better way to get a “feel” for each other than moving your newfound friendship onto the dance floor!
Both couples will have the opportunity to not only dirty dance with their own partner, but you can swap partners and really get up close and personal with your potential playmates.
5. Wanna play?
So everything seems to be going good. Everyone is having a great time. The conversations are flowing, as well as the drinks. The four of you have even ventured out onto the dance floor for a little pumping and grinding!
The energy is getting more and more sexually charged, enough so that venturing into the playrooms sounds and feels enticing.
How do you bring up moving to the playrooms? Playing is a term swingers use to describe being with another couple, whether it involves watching, heavy petting or intercourse. Sometimes it’s as simple as “Hey guys, we’re going to the playrooms … want to come?”
Remember this is about enhancing the relationship with your partner. Whether you end up playing with another amazing couple or you and your partner end up exploring each other, it will always be a successful experience.
Happy swinging!
How to become a swinger couple
Who are the Swingers? Why swapping the wife or the husband with someone else just for sex? It is dangerous for the relationship and it is only for couple that doesnt love anymore and wants just to have fun staying still toghether?
All these questions are not easy to answer and we must start from a mutual point.
“Sex and Love are two different things”
Monogamy is often the default option for many couples when it comes to intimacy. But not all couples go into relationships “closed,” nor do all relationships stay on a path of mutual, purposeful monogamy. Many couples have “open” arrangements and understandings, and some even look to strengthen and spice up their sex lives through actively adding partners to their twosomes, which is otherwise known as “swinging.”
But embarking on a swinger’s lifestyle isn’t as simple as sifting through Craigslist. There are boundaries, guidelines, and overall expectations couples should strongly consider before totally throwing out the comfort of tradition.
What is swinging?
Swinging is where a couple seeks out another couple or single person (or two) to enter into sexual relations or swap partners. This could happen via an ad or a designated party or a meet-up—or like any other sexual encounter, casually and randomly.
“I think what’s happening now is that it’s 2017 and people are coming to the understanding that we are going to live until we are basically 80 years old and what are we going to do with each other?” said Cristine Milrod, a sex therapist and researcher in Los Angeles.
Swingers give permission to their partners to have sex or “play” with other people, sometimes joining in or just watching from the sidelines. Couples who embark on this lifestyle often have rules that set a level of trust, like being with others, together, sexually, but being only with each other emotionally.
How to get started in swinging
Talk with your partner
Having a discussion with your partner about swinging is the first step to finding out if the choice is right for the both of you. It’s important that you both are on the same page, and that you aren’t rushing into it without understanding your own personal boundaries regarding intimacy first.
One way to test the waters is to watch porn together and study each other’s reactions. Find our what you like, what’s boring, what’s a turn off. Are you jealous of what he likes or finds attractive? Are you turned on by being turned on by the same things? This is a starting point for conversation.
Do your research
“Swinging can mean different things to different people,” says Milrod. “And I think that’s really important to acknowledge, so do your research before jumping into anything.”
This research could mean visiting swinging forums or engaging in conversations with other swingers first to get an idea of expectations and possible issues. Often, people mistake swinging to be the same as polyamory, where a single party practices emotional and sexual relations with multiple people other than their significant other. Swinging is a joint effort, where the couple goes into swinging together, whether simply for pleasure or to improve their relationship.
To some, knowing that both parties are going into it as a pair, as equals, makes swinging seem more appealing and approachable.
Set some rules
“Know your boundaries, negotiate your boundaries beforehand, and also know that boundaries can be renegotiated depending on feelings,” Milrod says.
Rules are important to feel safe in any new and strange environment, and if respected, rules can also strengthen trust between couples. The boundaries you make with your partner can always be shifted based on comfort levels. Ultimately, it comes down to what you two, as a couple, want out of swinging—and if the reality of swinging is giving you what you want.
oin a club or party
The ways couples find partners varies depending on their preferences.
Attending a hosted party or a swingers club is a more personal and natural way of jumping into the swingers community. Exclusive parties are most likely hosted in your area and can be found on dating websites (register to our web site.. it’s free! Click Here )
Many of these parties are private, and phones with cameras or video are not allowed inside due to obvious privacy issues. People are able to join or become members of these parties or societies like Killing Kittens or the Society of Janus, the latter of which focuses on BDSM.
Also, don’t feel like you have to give into the pressure to interact the first time you attend a party. Just go and observe to see if the group is right for your relationship.
Find a website
There are many different websites, mainly with free subscription but you have to pay later to read messages or attend events. What we would you to suggest is to start with SwingersTaboo.com (free always) that is suitable for everycouple in every place in the world. Register Here !!
What to expect when swinging
The notion that swinging is a chance to have sex with attractive people other than your original partner is not accurate. Do yourself a favor and ditch the idea that swinging is like Fifty Shades of Grey with high-profile, magical soirees in a mansion filled with extremely sexy people. The parties and elite clubs will most likely be filled with regular folk like your next-door neighbor.
Since swinging is often about exploring the physical side of intimacy with your partner and others, not engaging in emotional attractions, be aware that if unwanted feelings start to occur, then swinging may not be for you.
“Some people could fall in love,” said Milrod. “And if you are they type of person that really is more adept to a monogamous relationship based on your own level of comfort, feelings, and cultural background, there are ways this can both really enhance your relationship or really damage it like a torpedo. You’ve got to have rules in place.”
Swinging isn’t just a big orgy, either. At society parties or clubs, couples interact with one another based on what they are comfortable with. In one room, everyone could be observing a couple having intimate sex together, and in other private rooms, a couple could select a single woman to interact within their boundaries.
“Some couples we run into are heavily against kissing or engaging in only one partner,” said Smith. “To each his own, and in this world, it’s important to treat others with respect if you too wish to receive respect.”
The boundaries established before entering a party or meet-up will help aid the natural feelings of possessiveness and jealousy some might experience, and according to Milrod, could ultimately improve a couple’s sex life and take their relationship to another undiscovered level.
The swinging lifestyle isn’t for everyone and certainly hasn’t broken through most barriers of social acceptance, but having confidence in your relationship and trust with your partner is important to expanding your sexual repertoire.
The Swinger couple who run a sex club after….
A couple who are spicing up their sex life by opening their bedroom door to strangers have revealed how their swinging lifestyle brings them closer.
Lawrence, 31, and Jess, 25, started engaging in sex with other couples around five years ago.
And since then, the sexually curious couple have been hosting their events after launching their own swingers club called Our Secret Spot hidden in Sydney.
The club connects like-minded couples and single women so they can explore their wildest fantasies, such as BDSM, fetish, orgies, threesomes or foursomes.
Here, the adventurous pair share a glimpse into their lives – and how swinging has strengthened their five-year relationship.
‘What swinging can bring to a relationship is it can bring a lot of fun, first and foremost for a lot of people,’ Lawrence told The Morning Show.
‘But later down the track if you continue on, the lifestyle Jess and I found could bring a lot of communication and trust.
‘Honest communication helps you in all other facades of the relationships so you don’t have anything to hide from your partner and you could just talk really frankly with each other.’
The pair met five years ago working at their ‘everyday job’ when they soon discovered they shared a fondness for swinging.
‘He took me on a date, told me all about what he was into and straight from the get-go, we sort of started together,’ Jess said.
Explaining how their relationship works, the pair insisted they were not in an open relationship but they explore their sex life by mingling with other people together.
‘We play with other people,’ Jess said.
Jess said she came clean about her double life to her family about two years into their relationship.
‘I explained that me and my partner were getting into the swinging and we’ve opened up this club together as well,’ she said.
‘They definitely got a little bit confused, concerned, I mean I’m their baby daughter, so of course, it’s your child, you want to look after them.
‘But once I explained exactly what it is, and how comfortable I’m in this lifestyle, how I can express all my feelings and emotions, they kind of warmed up to it.’
As their relationship remains stronger than ever, the pair insisted they have not cast any concerns on whether one of them might meet someone else.
‘That’s something you’re going to have to risk, that sounds terrible but I mean, I love this man to death so I don’t feel like he’s going to run away,’ Jess said.
‘But if that happens, you just have to learn how to communicate your way through it. So there are going to be hiccups and there’s going to be things that you’re not going to like and what’s happening.
‘As long as the communication level between the two of you is very strong and you’re more than happy to talk about it, I think you’ll be fine.’
The swingers club, which opens every Thursday, Friday and Saturday, only accepts couples and single women – no single men are allowed.
There are rules in place, including no photography, no prostitution, no drugs – and couples must stay together at all times.
‘The most important rule is consent,’ Lawrence said.
‘Our club and any other club around the world is consent is key because you can’t walk around and touch people, it’s completely not like that.
‘Most people come to the club think it is going to be like that [but] it’s far more respectful than a normal nightclub where guys are just groping girls because they can.
Entrance costs between $100 to $200 a night for couples who are not members and $20- $50 for single women. The entry fee includes condoms, lubricant, towels, a locker and refreshments.
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