We talked in the past about 80s when television, thanks first of all to MTV, changed radically.
No more static figures, no more static and classic dresses and songs that talks about love, marriage, good will.
Some new Stars comes on the scene like Samantha Fox (we talked about her in this article) with her huge boobs that let people completly unaware about the song they were listening.
But in the end of 90 boys where divided. The ones that loved explicit sexyality (ok.. we are still talking about boobs) and the ones that were more addicted by eroticism... ok now we are talking about the contender of Samantha.. yes... here we are
Patsy Kensit (Eight wonder)
As a friend of mine told me, the 9th wonder probably was under her dresses... maybe also the 10th 11th and more...
In April 1985, Eighth Wonder was signed by CBS Records and began recording in London, working around Patsy Kensit's filming on Absolute Beginners. In October 1985, with the filming completed, Eighth Wonder's first single "Stay With Me" was released and achieved success in Japan, where it reached No. 1 and Italy, where it peaked at No. 4 in early 1986. It charted only at No. 65 in the UK Singles Chart.
in 1988 the reached the top of their success releasing "I'm not scared" and "Cross my heart" (while people was thinking to cross something else)
From this point the singer story ends. Patsy tried with some movies but 3 failed marriages and cocaine (a lot of cocaine) completly destroyed her carrer
BUT...
I know ... you want to remember well who was Patsy Kensit !! here it is her wonderful gallery and a video !!
Whether you’re planning to host orgies soon or at a later date — or are merely curious about what throwing amazing sex parties entail — you need not look any further. Here’s everything you need to know.
If you are a sophisticated individual, you will also love new experimentation in sex.
Therefore, we assume that having the same one on one sex with the same person everyday might make you become sick and tired after some times. You can come out of this rut when you indulge in group sex.
However, some rules are integral in order to experience the right fun from group sex. Here are these rules.
Rule 1: Select your comfort level
As you are indulging in group based sexual extravaganza for the first time, you may feel uncomfortable in the beginning.
We admit that doing something openly that is usually private will make you a bit awkward. Therefore, it is important to choose your group size first.
It is always better to try out group sex in a swingers party by gathering around some of your friends who are as equally experimental about sex as you are.
Rule 2: Know yourself and your desires
As you are planning to indulge in group sex, you have to take into account the sexual desires of each of the group members so that you are courteous in group activity.
Situations might become uncomfortable for you as a beginner such as multiple guys banging a single girl, making love in the bondage rooms, etc. might appear a bit awkward to you.
Therefore, the next rule for a beginner is to have an open talk with your group members about the types of sexual desires that you wish to fulfill. In case they suggest something different which is new to you, ask them if they will assist you during the final act.
Be a part of that group only when you find that you will get proper cooperation.
Rule 3: Choose a leader
The rule of thumb of group sex is that every member should be given equal sexual preference.
Nevertheless, choosing an experienced guy among you who will head the group will be ideal when you take part in group based sexual ecstasy for the first time.
This is because there are some key tricks of the game that might not be known to you as you are inexperienced in the matter.
For instance, you might not have proper idea to make the group feel pleased. You might not be aware of the parameters that need to be kept in mind while choosing the group size. You might be inexperienced in erotic moves that are perfect for a group event like this.
Fortunately, the experienced group leader will have a concise idea about all these aspects.
Very often we are asked or find questions in the forums about what are the signs that could make you understand if a couple is a swinger or willing to explore new horizons sexually.
Contrary to popular thoughts that there are no signs or symbols that swingers use to attract different swingers, in many cases, it appears that a few people are continually searching for a systematic approach to check out whether a friend, neighbor or colleague is a swinger.
So, yes, there are swinger symbols that the swinging community uses to attract other potential partners. This is also supported by the fact that because a swinger will have sex with someone else outside their primary relationship doesn't necessary mean that they'll have intercourse with whoever just goes along, when in fact swingers are just as picky as any other individual in the society about who they're attracted to and who they'll have sex with. Much the same as the joke: "Yes, I'm polyamorous. No, I won't engage in sexual relations with you." the same can be said for swingers: "Yes, I'm a swinger. No, I won't engage in sexual relations with you."
Popular urban legends that are hinted as typical swinger symbols
Pampas grass in the front yard garden
Pink or purple decorations in the front yard
Pineapple placed upside down in a shopping cart
A pineapple door knocker
A fire pit in the yard
A hot tub in the yard
A woman wears an anklet on her right leg
A woman wears an anklet on her left leg
A man or woman wearing a red ball cap
White landscaping rocks in someone’s front yard
Wearing a thumb ring
Wearing a toe ring
Switching the wedding ring to the right hand
Yin-Yang tattoo
1) Pineapples: A Swinging Good Time?
They do say nobody realizes what goes on behind closed doors – but, is your neighbor sending out secret clues that they're into swinging? The pineapple throughout the ages has represented charming hospitality and enthusiastic welcoming. A pineapple when kept on a patio or mailbox by swingers, it implies that a swinger party is underway. When a pineapple is turned upside down, it represents an individual is looking for a swinger party. However, initially, it was turned upside down in the people's shopping basket. The popularity of the upside down pineapple has made it acceptable for clothes and different other items as a secret message in the swinging community. Swingers utilize this symbol to recognize each other in broad daylight. Evidently, a pineapple left on the front entryway amidst the night is (in the modern time) really a bold request or a cheerful welcome for the swingers to join in!
2) Pampas grass
Yes, Pampas Grass has earned itself a long relationship with swingers, according to an article published in the Daily Telegraph. Scientifically called Cortaderia selloana, the grass is the secret code which indicates its owner appreciates the alternative lifestyle of swinging. Unfortunately, in the case of Pampas grass, there is such mind-bending publicity, which resulted in plummeting sales in recent years. Let the charm and temptation of swinging intrigue to you, proceed and knock on the Pampas Grass owner's door next time - just make sure to be accompanied by your partner.
3) The Polyamourous Symbol
There is a lot of confusion here because wearing a polyamorous symbol certainly does not mean that the person is part of the world of swinging. But it is certainly a sign that denotes a certain open-mindedness.
4) A black ring on the right hand
It seems that swingers even have their own secret accessories- which are helpful when trying to recognize a fellow swinger or people who enjoy this alternative lifestyle. As per Cooper Beckett, host of the Life on the Swingset Podcast, numerous couples are out there who wear a black ring to secretly imply that they are into swinging. He even wrote in an article publishes in the Daily Telegraph: "Wear your black ring on your right hand in the event that you are out and open to meet other swingers." In that article, he even helpfully guided on the most proficient way to break the ice in case you identify a fellow swinger in broad daylight. "On the off chance that somebody wearing a dark ring on their right-hand approaches you, start conversing with them, 'I see you're wearing a black ring on your right hand. Possibly we are the members of the same club'."
5) Garden gear and home decorations
Next time you run out of sugar and need to knock your next door neighbor, ensure you carefully observe his/her choice of garden gear and home decorations. Pineapples as well, evidently, when placed in the form of door knockers secretly suggest that your neighbor is a swinger. Oh, and garden gnomes may appear tasteless but ironically they're kitsch and honest. Because these are the secret codes that signal Mr. and Mrs. might request that you put your car keys in a glass bowl.
6) Hot Tubs
Having a hot tub in the garden is likewise acclaimed for being a typical swinger mentality. In any case, as indicated in an article in The Sun and later in the New York Post by Ross Phillipson, Sales chief at Hot Tubs Superstore in Blackpool, this has currently transformed into a legend. He clarified: "The greatest confusion is that hot tubs are the preserve of swingers, liberal Premiership footballers or flashy types who live in Essex. Truth be told, they are purchased by anybody and everybody." Another sign is that your neighbor will never open their garage entryway until they're in the car with the doors shut
7) Wristbands
In the not so distant past, these were extremely popular, with individuals gladly brandishing wristbands to secretly demonstrate their swinging aims. Well, "Charity begins at home" - and hence, swingers have likewise reportedly got their own branded wristbands. These wristbands have an extraordinary "sign" which, along with to the black rings, were made to enable swingers to identify each other potentially. It is also unpretentious and respects the privacy of the individual who wears it. What you have to pay special attention to, are the universal male and female signs organized horizontally with their circles crossing, with three plus signs on the two sides.
8) Anklet The hidden message
Albeit numerous women nowadays may think about the anklet is only a minor tinkle, it really and in generally symbolizes that a woman is married or committed to her partner/husband/lover yet available to other men for sexual adventures with the partner's/husband's consent and encouragement. They are usually referred as a "hotwife". At the point when a married lady wears an anklet, it implies that she is open to relationships and sexual adventures with men other than her partner/husband. In the event that the anklet contains heart images, it implies the wife is committed to her significant other yet free to date other men and have sexual relationships with mutual benefits. If the anklet contains the letter Q and the spade symbol, sometimes accompanied with a tattoo of a playing card and the letter Q inside, it usually means that the wife has a sexual preference for black men.
The music videos of the 80s began to be full of showgirls, singers who had no artistic talent but were pretty, with hair teased beyond belief and the first attempts at transgression in which one could glimpse a thigh, an "almost" tight-fitting dress, the first planes of sensual lips that sent people into raptures who until then had only been aroused thanks to Patsi Kensit navel and little else.
And then she arrives, Samantha Fox who enters the video, slaps your tits for fun while shaking them causing an entire generation to squint and sings you a song in which she shouts in an orgasmic voice “Touch Me Touch, I wanna feel your body” (Touch me touch me, I want to feel your body).
From that moment on, nothing will be the same as before.
Given its success, a horde of authentic low-class sluts began to arrive who tried to make it big (don't make obvious jokes) even in music, almost always with little success given that the most interesting part of the album almost always stopped at the cover.
But who is Samantha Fox and how did she become so well known?
She wasn't beautiful, I'm not saying ugly, but it's not like she was this great beauty.
Short, with the face of a country pig, with large, busty breasts but you can see it wasn't too perfect, a voice that compared to the horn of a Panda would sound like a Gregorian choir and even a little meaty. But how did she had so much success?
Simply for the fact that, artfully, it had been made known that Samantha was a former Porn Star and this was practically enough to erase decades of beautiful and fascinating women who on TV or in videos looked at the camera winking sensually.
Now there was someone who clearly told you "I want c…, who cares about kisses and cuddles".
For almost two years she was practically in the charts and wherever she went there were more people than at a New Year's Eve concert. It's good to know, however, my dears, that few people know about Fox that as a de facto porn actress she was practically kicked out because she was "not very expressive and didn't let herself be carried away by the scenes" as well as being totally lesbian, causing her quite a few problems in managing members. masculine (if you really don't like it, you don't like it….)
Her success led her to be the first "famous woman" to enter the world of video games. Her greatest success on the “Samantha Fox Strip Polker” as we told in: The Soft Porn Video Games of the 90s (Link HERE)
A threesome, also known as a trio or ménage à trois (French for a household of three), is when three people have sex together. It's not the same as group sex, which generally refers to sex acts involving four or more people at the same time. The way people feel about threesomes varies widely based on their experiences, ideas they have about sex, and cultural influences. While the idea is exciting for some, it's scary or unappealing to others. Understanding the dynamics of a healthy three-way, and the potential risks and benefits, can help you decide whether you might be interested in trying one or if this type of sexual exploration isn't for you.
Having a threesome for the first time often starts with a fantasy. Have you been dreaming about having sex with two people at the same time? There are a couple of things to consider. Do you have a partner who is interested in having a threesome? Or do you want to join a couple? And how do you go about asking for a threesome? If you want to make your fantasy come true, we’ve got a couple of good tips for you to make your first threesome experience a great success.
First time threesome: talk about it with your partner
Be open about your fantasies with your partner. If you want to experience a threesome for the first time and you want to do this with your partner, then tell them. It can be scary if you don’t know how your partner feels about it and what their reaction will be. Be clear about why you want a threesome: is it a one-time bucketlist experience or do you want to make your sex life more exciting? Explain your reasons well and ask your partner how they feel about having a threesome. Talk about the advantages, but also about the concerns. If your partner says no, respect their decision and let it rest for now. I say ‘for now’ because sometimes your lover simply needs some time to get used to the idea.
Heineken Threesome Commercial "Share one with your friend"
Where do you find partners for a threesome?
Whether you’re looking for one or two people for your first threesome, it’s always a challenge. If you’re single, it’s relatively easy to find a couple that is looking for someone to have a threesome with. Post a request on SwingersTaboo in activity page or Groups. Another tip is to go to a swingers club. Especially single women are very wanted there. The benefit of meeting someone in person is that you immediately know if you’re attracted to them. If you’re looking for a third person together with your partner, you can also book an escort. The main advantage of this is that it avoids jealousy and romantic feelings involving the third person.
Ideal: everyone is attracted to each other
It’s important to realise that having a threesome isn’t romantic. It takes a lot of effort, concentration, and stamina. Your mouth won’t be closed most of the time, there are plenty of holes that need to be filled, and your hands are everywhere all the time. If you want to make your first threesome a success, then make sure everyone is attracted to each other. The best threesomes involve a lot of chemistry between all three people. The most important aspect is that you feel completely comfortable. By the way, not everyone has to have sex with everone. For example, you’re a woman and your partner is a man. You’d like to have a threesome with your partner and another man. That doesn’t mean that the men also have to have sex with each other. I speak from experience when I say that two men can be intimate without touching each other. Obviously, they can have sex if they want to. It’s also possible that you’re very curious about what it would be like to touch another woman, so you can invite a woman that both you and your partner have sex with.
A Threesome with 2 Males is called "MMF" or "MFM"
The risk of inviting a friend for a threesome
As the title suggests: inviting a friend to join you and your partner in a threesome comes with certain risks. The main problem is jealousy. Especially when one of you receives more attention than the other. Do you want to watch your man get aroused by your best friend and then continue your friendship with her? What if your friend and your partner develop romantic feelings for each other? Of course, inviting a friend isn’t always a negative experience: it’s always good to know exactly who you invite into your home and you already trust your friend. Discuss the rules of the threesome beforehand with your partner. Then discuss them with the friend you invited to join the adventure. Also ask him or her about their wishes or conditions. This way you can prevent arguments and negative feelings that might come up afterwards as much as possible. It would be a shame to let a threesome ruin your friendship.
Agree on the rules
If you’re going to have a threesome for the first time, you might feel very nervous. Discuss the rules with all participants beforehand. The thought that you know exactly what to expect and what not to expect can help calm your nerves. Also talk about what you’re going to do afterwards: are you going to have a drink together, will everyone stay overnight, or are you – or is anyone else – going home immediately? The location is also important: do you want to invite the third person into your home, are you going to the house of the other couple, or are you going to a hotel? Talking about your threesome is important in any case. Express your wishes, fantasies, and concerns. This will help you feel relaxed before and during the threesome.
Is the threesome a secret?
An important question to ask is whether or not the threesome is a secret. If you don’t want anyone to know about it, or your partner or the third person wants to keep it a secret, it’s good to talk about this beforehand. Then everyone can agree on the rules, which is especially important when the threesome involves a close friend.
When a Threesome has 2 Women and 1 Man is called "FFM" or "FMF"
You can always say no
Having a threesome for the first time is a leap of faith. If it has been one of your naughtiest fantasies and it’s about to come true, you will feel all the emotions and hormones rage in your body. But what if you find out it isn’t your cup of tea after all? That’s okay, talk about it. Nobody wants you to feel uncomfortable. Even during sex you can mention you don’t want to do something. Are you scared to speak up? Try to remember that the other two people want you to have fun as well. After all, that is what a threesome is all about.
A good way to start a threesome
If you’re going to experience a threesome for the first time, you’re probably very nervous. Go out for dinner first or have a drink together. Create a sensual ambience in your house or hotel room with candles and music. You can dance, talk, or watch an erotic video together. The erotic tension will be there soon enough when someone takes the initiative. You can also perform a striptease in front of the others, or you can massage each other. Make sure all three of you get in the right mood.
What do you need for your first threesome?
There are a couple of things that are good to have on hand during a threesome. These products can help you make the experience even better:
First things first: lubricant. This is the basis of comfortable sex;
Massage oil or massage candles: create a sensual and relaxed ambience in the bedroom;
Lingerie: to make you feel confident and sexy, so you can on top of your flirting game;
Sex toys: especially a vibrator is a fun tool if there are two women in your threesome;
And of course: condoms.
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A threesome for the first time: experience
At some point, I somewhat unexpectedly ended up in a threesome myself after a night out with my lover and his friend. My lover aroused me (obviously). And the feeling of four hands on my body? That aroused me as well. But is was also confusing. You really have to concentrate if you’re having sex with two men at the same time. And I thought my lover was more attractive than his friend, and since they both only had sex with me, not with each other, it was a little too much to handle after all. I guess you cam say the idea was more exciting than the actual experience. Eventually I kicked the friend out of bed and my lover stayed. I definitely want to have a threesome again, but with a different third person.
Threesome: always have safe sex
Safe sex is always important. Maybe you and your partner don’t use condoms anymore, but if you’re inviting a third person to join, condoms are a must. Then you can keep it safe for everyone involved. Having sex with two partners involves changing the condom whenever you switch from one partner to the other. This can be a hassle, but it’s for the greater good: your own health and the health of your bed partners.
We can debate whether it is ethical or not, whether it could be a danger to teenagers or not, whether there should be more or less control, but one thing remains safe and certain.
If today on the internet, 70% of the content visited by users, whether men or women, is "porn" (whether softporn, erotic or explicit), it means that 70% of the population is what they want and are looking for. The rest is just talk.
Even in the dawn of modern technology, how could games avoid dealing with sexual themes? We decided to list the 5 90s games that all teenagers of the time secretly played at least once.
#1 Strip Poker
Without exception, everyone played the first computer strip poker for the old and timeless Commodore 64. It had a graphics power equal to that of a modern alarm clock display, but despite everything it did well in almost everything.
When this little game came out, no one would have imagined its great success. It was very simply about playing poker against a virtual girl and as you won, she took off her clothes. Simple but effective to the point that after the first version many others were released.
Game play of Strip Poker (old gaming)
From the first in black and white, to the color one, the one for Gay with men and finally the version in which even Samantha Fox was hired to show herself how mom made it.
#2 Pocket Gal
Much softer than Strip Poker, but very successful was the idea of associating the idea of Strip Poker with billiards. You chose an attractive opponent and if you won at the end of the match she remained in lingerie.
A "dirtier" version was also released in which there was full nudity but we honestly no longer remember the name of the game.
#3 Gals Panic
In the 90s, a little game was very fashionable in which you had to, following your own line, close boxes without being shocked, until you completely closed the screen. The original game name was Qix. But if we add to this idea that, when the frame is closed, part of an image of a naked girl appears in the background, we get Gals Panic.
#4 Lula the Sexy Empire
Undoubtedly my favorite. Both for the playability, for the idea, for the presence of a plot, but above all for the attractiveness of the virtual protagonist of the game.
Lula ExactlyThe story is that of an aspiring model who is rejected by the Los Angeles studios and finds herself in a remote suburban village penniless and without hope.
Initially you will go to bed with unsuspecting customers of a fetid pub and then you will blackmail them with compromising photographs, you will participate in films, until you create your own industry to dominate the world of porn.
#5 Leisure Suite Larry
Sierra was a very renowned house for games, but given the success of erotic games, it decided to enter into it too with great intelligence by creating a V.M.18 game in which the protagonist passed through different environments and, through the click & find method (search and click), he had to solve puzzles and then manage to get as many women as possible into bed.
The game wasn't very easy but it was so successful that 10 sequels were released.
